Lifting the vale

[athelstanent]

I have what may be a surprise for some people. Me and my mate do have issues we need to work out. I've been surprised at the spontaneous declarations of others about how good of a relationship Blackberry and I have. I know it's good, but I had no idea it was good enough that others would notice. So last night we had a great conversation. It was about sex, and I'll not go into details. There not important for this post. It did branch into many other things. What I want to say was we had frustrations, and were honest and told each other what they were. I think we both surprised each other with what were were holding back from each other. In the end we both felt better. A good sign, and I think we'll be together for a long time. We are close emotionaly and have complete trust in each other. So some times sex does not go as well as it could. That's just the way things are, and we talked about what to do about it.

Comments

[clauditorium.livejournal.com]

That sounds very positive. That's what "they" always say - the key to a healthy relationship is communication. Good for both of you!

[athelstan.livejournal.com]

Thank you.

I think that "they" are right this time. It's funny how when you get involved in a relationship that you'll be more reserved because you don't want to hurt your partner. I learned from this that you really do need to be open and honest all the time, even about some more icky things and especially when you were wrong.